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Originally Posted by aelle  Parthon, he may indeed be carrying trauma or refraining himself from loving, but for Lana this doesn't matter much: the point is she wants to be in a relationship and, whatever the reason, he does not. They cannot be happy together at this point. |
I agree.
Lana: Go and see him, but stay true to yourself. He will react and become defensive, and you must be strong in the face of his reaction and not react yourself. You've gone there to say something specific and very important to you, so you must stick to getting your point across. Don't console him, as he will want you to, just get him to understand where you are coming from. Speak from your heart as well as your mind, and express your self fully.
Lastly: Good luck, I wish you a lot of courage.
