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Originally Posted by aelle 
Funchy, thanks for your warning but this type of situation really isn't a concern here. We met in real life, not online, and had a couple of months of "proximal" relationship (how the hell do you call the opposite of long distance?) before we had to move away from one another.
And the problem with the risk you take when you need years to really know someone is a very valid point, but I feel it applies just as well to face-to-face relationships. People change so much in their teens and 20s, I would really face the same challenges if I were with a local I met as a student who would then enter professional life. We just have to try our best to know ourselves, know each other and based on that bet that we will change in compatible ways.
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Yep. I'm in a LDR as well, just like this... These are my same concerns (I too am in my 20s). *sigh* I'm trying my best not to think about it too much. It gets extremely frustrating.