 it doesnt matter how much he loves you
It doesn't matter how much two people love each other; what matters is the baggage they each bring to the relationship. I think its possible to meet your soulmate and have the worst relationship with that person. There is a thin line between love and hate. The more passionate the love - the more passionate the hate too.
He has his issues and you have yours. We all have issues. Sometimes we meet someone who has the perfect compliment of baggage we need. They may be the parent of the opposite sex and we naturally gravitate to their qualities because they are so familiar.
Relationships are hard because we learn from our parents who most definitely made mistakes. We just repeat our parents mistakes with a complete stranger essentially who is repeating his parents mistakes too. Its the blind leading the blind.
That's why being part of a congregation or some organized religion might mean some marriage counseling to help point you both in the right direction.
Try to see this relationship as a chance to learn something about yourself and what you want or don't want in a relationship.
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