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Old 10-16-2008, 10:58 PM   #8 (permalink)
JimOfferman
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Originally Posted by striving4peace View Post
Girls are extremely complicated creatures whose wants and patterns change erratically. They'll give hidden messages which you have to look out for, and attach a lot of meaning to the protocol of interaction and portrayal
I think you're doing the female gender and yourself a great disservice by pretending that the majority of women behave like this.

Yes, there are a few who, for reasons beyond me, feel that they need to act in this particular way. Don't waste your time pursuing them! Instead, spend your effort on women who can communicate with you without the use of smoke and mirrors.

I've ran across a few of those secret signal types and I have no doubt that they now think of me as the most dim witted person they have ever met, endlessly frustrated that I never got their "obvious" hints... their loss!
(of couse, I did get the hints... but I don't feel like playing charades with my partner for the rest of my life)

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