Some years on TV I saw some news on research done in California during about 10 years with a huge amount of people.
They were rating the level of happiness (0 to 100) they had every day, and keeping a dairy where they remarked events during that day.
Results showed that if you are unhappy without company, you will be unhappy with company.
Also, it was evident that starting a relationship had a small boost of happiness, but it returned to normal after some brief period of time.
So they concluded that if you want to be happy with a couple, you need to be happy with your life first. And also it showed tha having company is not the secret of happiness.
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Originally Posted by funchy  As a woman, I'm not sure I agree with these sweeping generalizations or "laws" of attraction. I also don't agree that all women use nice guys or that women are overly complicated. |
Attraction is biochemical. Love is a decision.