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Liza Red · 10-16-2008, 07:01 AM

Hi everyone.

Ok there is this guy I am really interested in. I was simply walking down the street and three guys walked past me. One of them decides to stare at me. Then I natuarlly looked back and felt this weird psychic force hit me. It made me stop walking altogether. I looked back at him. I couldn't help myself.

I think he got it as well because since that day, whenever I see this guy, he starts to stare at me for a long time or stares then looks away from me. He also sometimes flirts a little.

Now my main problem is he is very shy and won't come up to me. I know I have to make the move. Trouble is, I have a habit of "choking" due to lack of confidence.

Here's an example a month ago: Once he was all by himself at the park and started staring at me. I looked back, but my mind somehow blocked out so I had no idea what to say to him. Then the poor thing got depressed. After that I thought I was going to scare him away. So being the idiot I am, I walked away from the situation.

I want some advice on how to approach him, what to say to him (examples would be good), and what to do if he is with his mates.

I will be going to a function on Monday and he will be there so I want to have some answers by Sunday.

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10-16-2008, 07:01 AM	#1 (permalink)
Liza Red Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 34	Help with a guy Hi everyone. Ok there is this guy I am really interested in. I was simply walking down the street and three guys walked past me. One of them decides to stare at me. Then I natuarlly looked back and felt this weird psychic force hit me. It made me stop walking altogether. I looked back at him. I couldn't help myself. I think he got it as well because since that day, whenever I see this guy, he starts to stare at me for a long time or stares then looks away from me. He also sometimes flirts a little. Now my main problem is he is very shy and won't come up to me. I know I have to make the move. Trouble is, I have a habit of "choking" due to lack of confidence. Here's an example a month ago: Once he was all by himself at the park and started staring at me. I looked back, but my mind somehow blocked out so I had no idea what to say to him. Then the poor thing got depressed. After that I thought I was going to scare him away. So being the idiot I am, I walked away from the situation. I want some advice on how to approach him, what to say to him (examples would be good), and what to do if he is with his mates. I will be going to a function on Monday and he will be there so I want to have some answers by Sunday. .