There was a thread started by Tony tone tone
Guys, do you need help meeting women? which I found very encouraging. It gives good perspectives on law of attraction and attracting relationsihps( I've tried LOA haphazardly and I've gotten abysmal results).
On the other hand, most of the articles about attracting women and the so called "pick up artist" community are out of sync with my personality. I feel that they are dehumanizing. Most of the dating gurus have capitalized on their ability to have sex with "X" number of women in a given period of time. I couldn't see any consideration towards attracting a loving relationship for the long term.