So I think it might be best to go for a little while (even a weeks seems long to me right now) without any communication between us- at least not any initiated by me.
However, the hardest part is when I am feeling sad and alone and really missing him- it's REALLY hard to not just call him or text him. Any suggestions that might help me?
I guess after thinking about what everyone has been saying, I am realizing that I shouldn't be thinking it is a good and wonderful sign that he wants to see me because it may just be that he is feeling lonely and I am familiar and comfortable to him. I am probably meeting a need of his which might be preventing him from having the time alone to really figure out what he wants. the only thing I worry about is that right at this moment, I feel confident that I can go for a few weeks without seeing him or talking to him....but it's inevitable that I will find myself soon in a state of weakness, feeling sad, and wanting to just say "screw it!" to my rational thinking and just go over and see him to make myself feel better.
that courage someone mentioned- any idea how to get some of that?
