Again, you really don't have girl troubles. Most men -- and the vast majority who spend their time on the Internet! -- can't even work up the nerve to talk with a hot woman, to flirt with her, etc.
You have no trouble interacting with women and getting into relationships. You simply haven't found the right woman yet.
It'd be like saying that a major league baseball player with a 0.300 batting average has a hitting problem 70% of the time. He, and everyone else, would disagree -- he's actually doing quite well!
As for your family, don't let them get to you. If you feel like their outdated perception of you is hindering your growth, it's okay to call them out and tell them so. In your own words, just explain that you've worked very hard to improve your self-image and social skills and that you would greatly appreciate not being constantly reminded of your obsolete past. You live in the present now and they need to accept that.
David
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