Originally Posted by Harmonium
Feels like you fell short on optimism when trying to get your point across, it feels really cold
Why do I feel so confused?
I hold little sympathy and zero optimism for those who would choose the cowardly act of ending their life instead of improving it. Those who would rob not only themselves but all the rest of creation of the purpose and benefit of their existance need neither. They need help, they need compassion, they need guidance, they need understanding.
If someone's life's so ♥♥♥♥♥♥ that they feel they need to end it, they don't need optimism
, they need a reality check. They need help in getting that they haven't "lost" anything because they never "had" anything to begin with.
Every experience in this life, every relationship is transitory. Everything we experience is meant to be a lesson in living - "good" AND "bad". Every person that comes into our lives has a gift to bring us. Maybe that gift is Love, maybe it's pain. But each experience makes us who we are and lays the foundation for what we need to become.
If we stop experiencing things, then we stop learning the lessons that are designed to make us what we need to be. It would be like stopping exercising because it doesn't feel good then blaming the Universe because you don't have any energy.
People who commit suicide lack the fundamental understanding of their role in the Universe. They fail to get how essential they are. OR they somehow don't care about anything but their own perceptions of good and bad and their own immediate comfort.
If you want to not be confused, stop confusing yourself. Your life is a journey. What you experience today is unique from every other day. What you experience tomorrow will be unique again. Live for the experience that the Universe has prepared for you so that you can be who and what you are supposed to be; both in this life AND the next experience.