real_username :
Man, I read this stuff and I want to shake you till your eyes rattle:
>>I want her. Only her in my life. I really know she's the one. I feel it. I know it. And if this ends, it's better for my life to end.... at the age of 25 this would be sad.... I can't be cool about that.
>>I just want her back in my life. But know for sure that she's "mine".
>>But I need her, want her.... oh you don't know her. She's the most wonderful human being......
You need to grow a spine and fast.
She's the most wonderful human being...... - Agh! Wake up man, she's banging your boss's brains out.
She is history. It is finished, accept it totally. You could never trust her again. Everytime she's late for something, you'll wonder. Everytime she makes an excuse, you'll wonder. That is no way to live. You'll eventually end up in a very dark and twisted place. Eject now.
Terminate this so-called relationship immediately, and as TheColonel admirably states, "Make it quick and surgical. Do not get into a discussion about anything."
Perfect advice. Dont act mad, dont act hurt, dont talk about it with her, dont let her direct anything in any way. Deep six it and move on. Avoid her like the plague, but not mad or hurt, just indifferent, like she's lint on your sweater.
I've had it happen to me years ago and yeah, it sucks when someone does stuff like this to you. But be a man about it.
And sorry to the non-confrontational minded folks around here, but I'd have to take issue with the boss (assuming he knows you guys were a couple).
I definately would find another job. Would be foolish to think you could be around these people after this.
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