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Originally Posted by oBakasan  Interesting post.
I can certainly see that there's some truth in it, but not having studied my own sexuality at this point it is hard for me to say for certain. I do feel that there is something missing in your rationalization, but again, I cannot discern for certain. |
I think a confusion arises in the negative connotations of the word "control"; women want to be able to relax entirely into the man, to feel safe through him; and a man wants to protect the woman and feel the proof of his strength through her. If you just can't accept the power dynamic as something natural, I suppose it gets perverted into the whole BDSM thing. Instinct can never be stoppered, only redirected.