Actually feeling exist as thought wave.
Yes there is balance of forces in the universe. All states of matter exist in the physical universe exist in appropriate amounts so that no single state pulls the rest into itself.
Blackholes do not suck everything in, neither does plasma turn everything ablaze.
But the physical universe was formed from the spiritual and the spiritual will always exist with or without the physical.
Btw Megan since you are so interested in feeling, you'd love reading this:
Seven Senses - All sense is One sense » Secrets of Mind and Reality
Feelings are everything.