Thread: How to ask a guy out?
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Old 10-13-2008, 01:40 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Also, Does guy ever think that if i come on to him first he would label me EASY, CHEAP, DESPARATE? Does it means he has less respect for the girl because he doent have to work hard at all to get her.??
People regardless of whether they are male or female find things that are difficult to get more valuable than things that aren't (Robert Cialdini's principle of scarcity).

You probably would also want to be with a guy that make your girlfriends jealous of you.

For some girls or boys it's more important than for other and for most people it's more important to see your other qualities.
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