Dudes, straight up it really does not matter at all. Guys make a HUGE deal, and so do girls, about being a virgin or not being a virgin. Most guys and girls have only had sex with maybe three or four different people by the time they're 23 or 24 so if you think about it from that perspective it really is ridiculous. You think they're still not awkward when they have sex with a new person for the first time? Of course they are. Unless you are talking to a guy or girl that really gets around, you really not behind. It's completely and 100% in your head. Let all that baggage go, you're not losing the race, it doesn't matter. Play your own game. In the end, you might end up on top.