5) society or at least the male peers tend to believe and make you believe that it's a competition, a race to see who has the most amount of fun. It's not a pissing contest.
actually I'm having trouble with this now, I'm seeing 24 year olds with thier boyfriends/girlfriends, or getting engaged even... and I think to myself, damn they not only beat me but have a decade of sex more than I ever will. I keep trying to think "I'll make up for it" or "It's not a race" or "never compare yourself with others". But a few rare moments like this when I feel down. It's not that i'm not trying or anything - right now i'm a little preoccupied with a personal project that takes up all my time for the next few months. But I'm trying to meet new people, I've asked out a couple of people, gone partying and socialising... etc etc... but bottomline's a bottomline... I'll probably feel better soon but was wondering what anyone has to say about this.