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Old 10-11-2008, 09:15 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ellie View Post
The thing is I think she either thinks I might be gay, and I don't realise it yet or that maybe I will convert, because she keeps hinting at it. I don't know maybe it's something for her to feel more the "norm", if someone that she grew up with turned out to be a lesbian as well.

And speaking to her more about "her coming out" I don't necessarily believe that all gays are born with this, but they have an "experience or a thought" and that changes their belief in what sexual orientation they are. I think this could happen quite easily. Of course I am not saying that for all homosexuals, but I think it can happen.
Does it make you uncomfortable knowing she's asking if you are lesbian or not?

Sexuality altered by nurture, well... having that belief will make you question whether she will try to turn you into a lesbian. Without this belief, they are just being themselves and it'd be foolish to think that they are attempting to convert something which is near impossible.

You could be right though. Sexuality is one of those vague as heck topics Ideas have been put forward that we are all slightly bisexual, and some asexual (interested in neither)
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