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Originally Posted by Zoomorphic  Also, Does guy ever think that if i come on to him first he would label me EASY, CHEAP, DESPARATE? Does it means he has less respect for the girl because he doent have to work hard at all to get her.?? |
No. Guys are actually quite welcoming when it comes to girls asking them out. It's flattering and many are nervous about asking themselves.
The only thing to worry about is just not coming off as desperate. >< If you've been pinning after this guy for awhile, you may appear overly eager. It's not so bad, but it may put him off a little.
This means wildly jumping up and down with the energy of a midget chimp with a wooden leg. Unless you have a thing for imitating primates with a splinter fetish, you should be good.
Really, any approach will do. "Wanna go out/see a movie/etc?" Guy's appreciate directness more so than a round-about way of asking or doing things. State your intentions clearly and you'll do fine. Even if you're too timid to do so, guys will often write it off as a girl being round-about and accept anyway. Win-win.