 ZHereford thanks
Dear ZHereford, yes you are right – at the time when I wrote my first post I was feeling so down and desperate… and I didn’t like it, but that’s how it was…
Thank you for you comments… Reading your post I was thinking… I actually have missed receiving honest, straight talking from people…
Seems like most people around are always careful not to hurt anyone’s feelings… but in the long run it is more damaging..
I agree that it is not the job of either of us to make the other one happy… As I said in my previous reply… > In principle I agree with all the comments.. just putting things into practice … it is so hard… How do you guys do it… Where do you find strength from… You see I find strength from that person… (this sounds selfish)… so… if he is not there… I am afraid… don’t know where to look for strength…
I definitely don’t want to be a needy person… but maybe I am… so how do I change that….
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