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Old 11-06-2006, 03:44 AM   #29 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Lychee View Post
Scott,

You said dating is not natural and I am inclined to agree with you, but would you mind expanding on what you mean by "not natural"?

We have to be the person we want to attract. I guess the easiest and most effective way is the obvious. It's hard not to get discouraged, but we can't lose our faith or patience.
I'm pretty sure what Scott means by "dating is not natural" is that when we're dating someone, we have a tendency to show our best selves (i.e: not necessarily our natural/real selves), in order to keep the other party pleased. Then after a few years, or even marriage, finally one's true colours show up...............
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