I read somewhere else on the site about the thought of pulling grass out of the ground to make it grow faster. All you do is kill a bunch of grass, and have less than what you started with.
I think that Idea applies to friendship. Man it really can't be forced. The more you focus on it, the more it is going to go away.
The biggest lesson I have learned thus far in life is to be self sufficient in all aspects of your life.
Accept personal responsibility for your happiness and well being. It was your choice to put it in the hands of your friend who 1. doesn't want that responsibility, 2. doesn't deserve it either.
A person isn't something someone can poses.
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