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Originally Posted by Dannyboy1  You can argue anything, that doesn't make it right. Why not just have him go up to every person he finds attractive and say "I want to **** you." Maybe in some imaginary world in your mind this would work, but not in the real world. What he did was invasive, abrupt, and skeevy. |
that's just your subjective analysis, which is a good thing for anyone to have, but it doesn't necessarily correlate to what's right or wrong in the real world™. If somebody finds a human asking another human to have sex with them straight out "skeevy" (or whatever negative term you want), perhaps that says more about the person who feels that way, rather than the act itself. That's ok though, because the negative feelings are an opportunity for learning. I've gone through the same thing re: feeling weird when approached by gay guys. I was bothered they would make me feel weird and found it rude. But when I looked deeper I realized the negative feelings were stemming from my ego, and had nothing to do with the gay people approaching me.
Personally I think the gay guy was simply following Steve's advice:
The Most Direct Solution to Any Problem 