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Originally Posted by Dannyboy1  You can argue anything, that doesn't make it right. Why not just have him go up to every person he finds attractive and say "I want to **** you." Maybe in some imaginary world in your mind this would work, but not in the real world. What he did was invasive, abrupt, and skeevy.
That said, you don't have to be affected by it. Step back and realize this is an energy you don't need in your life, remove yourself from the situation, and focus on the now. |
I didn't say it
should be done that way, but I do think it is a much more honest approach. We have been socially conditioned to think that such a direct approach isn't acceptable, but that doesn't mean that it couldn't work under different societal expectations. If someone is interested in me only for sex I'd much rather they tell me that than pretend to be interested in something more (friendship, romantic relationship, etc). Obviously that isn't what most people would prefer, so the direct approach the guy employed was not well received.