real_username,
I think folks here are giving excellent advice. It's difficult to heed this advice because what you probably want to hear is, "Yes, stick with it, stay with her, you can work it out."
The reality however is that you really should end the relationship before it ends you. Being in love is great but only if it is reciprocated with respect and trust. The bottom line is that she does not respect you (and her boss) enough to be honest with everyone involved. Without that honesty, you can't have trust, without trust, there is no relationship.
It's time for you to step back, be with your close friends and family, and take care of yourself.
Though I've never been involved with anyone who has cheated on me, I have had my heart broken by someone who was "the one". It's a big world full of beautiful people with wonderful souls, and eventually, you will find another "the one", one who will reciprocate the love and respect you deserve.
Sending you love and light,
Trish
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