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mattsonn · 12-21-2006, 09:48 PM

I think the biggest trick is getting comfortable outside your home. Even I don't want to socialize when I'm stressed out.

And when in doubt, just dress and act normal!

If you're a girl, then just go with the flow of conversation. If you're a guy then try to direct the flow. In my experience, guys who are with new people and don't direct the flow tend to get ignored.

12-21-2006, 09:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
mattsonn Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 154	I think the biggest trick is getting comfortable outside your home. Even I don't want to socialize when I'm stressed out. And when in doubt, just dress and act normal! If you're a girl, then just go with the flow of conversation. If you're a guy then try to direct the flow. In my experience, guys who are with new people and don't direct the flow tend to get ignored.