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Originally Posted by SomeRandomGuy  It could be argued that what this man did is much more honest than what most people do while trying to pick someone up. The man did put on a show of friendliness, but we don't know if that was just to try to get what he wanted or if he is a genuinely nice and friendly guy. At least he was up front about what he wanted, in a relatively short period of time. I think that all too often people pretend to be interested in someone for more than sex, when sex is really all they want. In the end, one or both of the people involved end up disappointed at having invested so much time just to find out they aren't on the same page. In this situation, the OP invested little time on this guy before find out his true motivation and moving on. Sometimes I wonder if the up front and honest approach might not be better than all the games people play in the dating world. |
You can argue anything, that doesn't make it right. Why not just have him go up to every person he finds attractive and say "I want to **** you." Maybe in some imaginary world in your mind this would work, but not in the real world. What he did was invasive, abrupt, and skeevy.
That said, you don't have to be affected by it. Step back and realize this is an energy you don't need in your life, remove yourself from the situation, and focus on the now.