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Originally Posted by somethingsmissing  Hey Robc. Thank you for wanting to hear about the outcome. Surprisingly it went well. I don't know if he was maybe hiding his true feelings...because I thought he woudl be alot more upset...but you were right rob...he agreed with me. He said he was surprised I put up with is crap for this long...ie: him always being gone. I said I still want to be friends, he agreed. He said he thinks that's what kinda happened to us anyways...we started to become just friends. I feel really good about my decision and I am glad he knows how I feel. He said he knows what I mean and where I am coming from and that he is sorry for pushing me away like that...I think deep down we both know we aren't really meant to be together. He was happy with my honestly and thanked me for being there for him all this time. I really don't think I could have done this without your input and knowledge...so I want to thank you very much. I look forward to getting back to school and living my life for ME!!!!
Sincerely:
somethingsmissing....aka time to start over  |
The important thing to never lose sight of is that you are the most important person in your life, take care of yourself, respect yourself, think highly of yourself and above all, love yourself. If (I should say, You WILL) you can do those things, I guarantee you the people that come into your life will reflect the same positive values and not because you want them to but because they just do.
I kind of had a feeling your ex would have agreed with alot of things you said and the feelings that you've had for quite some time. It could also be that he was looking for a way out also and didn't know how to do that without hurting you so he just started pushing you away or trying to control you to get you to resist him, it's really hard to say what was going on his mind during the relationship & now.
The important thing is, you were honest with him and more importantly with yourself. One last piece of advice for this great new life or yours... Always ask for the best in life, because you never get more than what you ask for.
I wish you all the best and I'm sure the rest of the people following this thread probably echo those sentiments also.
Thank you for sharing - keep sticking around the site, check out all the audios and blogs on all the personal development info here on this site, it really does help alot, Steve Pavlina has this stuff down to a science, it really is amazing what you can do when you put your mind to it.
