Tell him that you have LSE. And that you recognize it and are committed to overcoming it. And that he may have to put up with several episodes of LSE and when he recognizes it, have a code word for him to help support you.
Then mean it. And live it. And commit to it every day and every moment of your life. (this is the really hard part)
If he leaves, that's ok, at least he's helped you see your LSE. You too, deserve a loving supportive partner, with your flaws and all. You don't have to "fix yourself" before you love. Love is possible, even with all our flaws.
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