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Originally Posted by Boreas 
SomeRandomGuy, in response to your question I think what bothers me most is that I was propositioned so blatantly. And by that I mean it seemed to me that this guy was very sad, lonely, and good hearted, and in some ways I wanted to help, but I guess I didn't know how. Certainly conceding to his advances would have been the worst thing...though maybe girls fall into a kind of pity-trap a lot?... Also, I have also been seduced by a beautiful girl (also Turkish coincidentally!) who was just after sex and I turned her down too, but more because it just seemed sickeningly manipulative on her part, and not because she was lonely or kind hearted... I think she was the kind of girl that had sex in night club bathrooms, but I digress...
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Based on this, I don't see any reason for you to feel like you need to change the way you act around people. As long as you are just being nice to people and not blatantly propositioning them it doesn't seem that you should make them uncomfortable.