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Originally Posted by Dannyboy1  I would never approach a woman and immediately ask her to my hotel room. It's rude. It is gross. He obviously does this all the time. He pretty much just wanted to get off. It's not like he wanted to get to know you. He took advantage of your "niceness" and made you feel like a piece of meat. Of course you were grossed out! Don't get down on yourself about being manipulated. You were just being trusting and tried to make the best of it even after he made a disgusting proposition. |
Thanks Dannyboy, I think this more or less echoes my thoughts, and it did seem like he does this kind of thing a lot. It did take him 20-30 minutes to ask me to the room, just for the record, and while I am setting the record straight, since people might wonder, he was Turkish, and maybe in his 70s, and I am 26, so it is not like I am a teenager or anything. I am in Frankfurt to learn to speak german, and that is where all this went down. Even though it is a big city, I think I am still going to try be kind, though I have got more straight faced over time, and much harsher with ignoring people who hand out fliers or ask me to sign up for a magazine. In a way this guy hitting on me also all seems like big city nuisances that makes people in cities somewhat less friendly than people in smaller towns.
Also, thanks for all the responses, it is helping to talk this out...