Thanks Mindless, it was good to hear your opinion, and how you can "feel out" when people have ulterior motives, because I would agree with that, and I feel better because I never have ulterior motives...
SomeRandomGuy, in response to your question I think what bothers me most is that I was propositioned so blatantly. And by that I mean it seemed to me that this guy was very sad, lonely, and good hearted, and in some ways I wanted to help, but I guess I didn't know how. Certainly conceding to his advances would have been the worst thing...though maybe girls fall into a kind of pity-trap a lot?... Also, I have also been seduced by a beautiful girl (also Turkish coincidentally!) who was just after sex and I turned her down too, but more because it just seemed sickeningly manipulative on her part, and not because she was lonely or kind hearted... I think she was the kind of girl that had sex in night club bathrooms, but I digress...
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