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Originally Posted by real_username  Hey Cron,
You're right. I refuse to believe that there's going to be happiness "after" (if) her. |
You are wrong. There are people who have had partners they have loved deeply for a life time, who have lost them in old age, and who have gone on to recover, be happy.
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I love her. I love everything about her.
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What exactly do you love about her? Is it an undefinable feeling? If so, that is the thing that fades in time. After that, who you are as people builds real love. As of right now that person is a person who has no problem with cheating and lying. Are those lovable qualities? Again, ask yourself what it is exactly that you love. Can other women posses these qualities?
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She would feel like I'm pushing her,
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************ that, she is cheating on you, expecting you take it, and is lying to you.
I guarantee you that you will feel hurt, you will get over it, you'll get another job, another girl, another love, and find happiness beyond all of that.
Go ahead and refuse to believe it. Your bogus thinking will just fester upsetting emotions and you will only extend your own misery. Even then, you will eventually come out of it.
It is just up to you how much punishment you are willing to take.
Like I said, having been in your spot and having heard the exact same stuff I know there is a good chance that nothing I say will get through.
Good luck, I mean that.