Selfishness is easy.
It's basic to human nature. It doesn't require any efforts to be selfish, just look at any little baby as they grow. It's easy for them.
When you think of selflessness, the opposite of selfishness, you think of courage. You think of self esteem. You think of self awareness. Because it takes these to be selfless.
The person operating at a lower consciousness of being thinks selflessness is weakness, yet it is the highest expression of love.
Selfless sharing is the highest expression of love, and love is the greatest of all forces operating in the universe.
The more empowered you become in your innermost being, the more selfless you get. Then you begin to
touch others and then you begin to bring healing both to individuals and to the human family.