 How do I move on...
Hi Everyone,
My first time here.... I need your support... what am I doing wrong...
At the moment... I feel that I don't know where my life is going... I don't see any purpose, any point of living... I want to be so much with the man I love... he says he wants it too... but yet he does not feel ready to make that step.. My logical mind understands that very well.. I would never want to push anyone to do anything that they are not ready for...
But my heart wants this union so much... Something inside me tells me it is the right thing... I believe he is my soul mate... I feel that he is just scared of the unknown, also says he is too old... (age gap is quite big)... he says - only if he was my age he wouldn't hesitate....
He has always been a very kind, very giving person... he always cares about what other people think.. does not want to hurt anyone... puts himself last... ( in his own words - he doesn't count.. he is happy when he makes other people happy)...
When we are together I feel we can do anything.. we can achieve anything.... we can move mountains... and we are alsways so happy... When we have to part it is so difficult.. and we miss eachother terribly.. When we meet again it is like coming home.... feels so good...
He gives me love like no one ever before... He gives me strength... I feel like I am my true self around him.. I feel so free.... so happy... I would give my life for him....
He says the same thing back... that he feels exactly the same... Yet... he is not ready to be with me (move in together) ... Naturally I then ask myself... does he really feel the same like me... If he did... wouldn't he want us to be together... ?
I know what you all might say...> Let him be himself... when he is ready he will... But it is so difficult to watch something from the side... and let it be as the solution is so obvious... (to me)
Reality is - he is much older than me.. time just passes and he is not getting any younger, neither am I ... If it is only 10 years that we could be together on this Earth... I want that... why can't he see this...
I am at a point where I don't know what to do... seems like he will never be ready.... I wish one can just delete "love" with a click of a button... and then move on...
Just a few facts - I have known him for 11 years and we have always been were very good friends. 5 years ago we started coming closer - it happened over a period of time. We have had so many psychic "coincidences" together... We seem to be so tuned with one another... It is unbelievable.. How do I turn my back on all that....
I don't know what to do... I just know I want this so much.... It feels right...
I have never felt like that about anything or anyone else before...
I appreciate any comments from you guys...
Thanks
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