Liked Kylarks response.
Perhaps science will help you.
YouTube - Dr Quantum - Double Slit Experiment
that cartoon is five minutes of proof that matter is only thought.
Ask einstein.
80% of Quantum physicists believe that nothing is in existence unless it is observed. your bedroom vanishes when you leave, etc.
Weird huh? Those weirdos..... lol
However it will allow you to accept that all of your thoughts are already reality, and that will aid your expectation level. The universe wants to manifest your quests into actuality.
actuality is our group concept of reality. You need to believe in your visualizations and science was my first step to believing.
search my other posts if you want more in depth.
good-luck
wayne