 She's cheating on me - please, I need an advice!
Ok - just to start. I have another nickname here, but because I'm ashamed I registered new one (please mods understand me).
I have been in this relationship (I thought it serious) in about a year. The girlfriend is my colegue. It has been so wonderful and perfect. Till the last few months.
Then what happened - she attended a concert at another city. And then rumours started at work that she's my boss's lover (probably someone seen them there). I knew that she traveled with him (she told me so, but nothing more) and I defended her in front of everyone.. I think they believed her and me.... But then I started to be jealous - something I've never been. And how all started: She told me that she's losing everyone's respect for what they think she'd done. And I told her "Yup. It would be OK if you F***d him". And she looked at me strange.... as if she wondered that I knew something...
After that I've never looked with a good eye at her meetings with him. Because they meet a lot.... that is supposed to be that way. She always smells like his perfume, but I excused that because even I after a short meeting with him smell like it. This doesn't mean I've never been jealous of him...
And then today.... I needed to use her work cell phone. And checked her text messages. Oh, my dear god. Her inbox was full of messages like "I love you", "Me too", "Kissing you, sunshine"... and all of this kind. From him... my boss. I wanted to die.... immediately.
So I need an advice what to do with her.... I don't want to lose her. But I want to be honest with her... and try to stop this relationship with him...
She's always told me that she was physically attracted to him. In fact when we started our relationship (this was when I moved to her office) shehas been really almost in love with him.....and have always told me that I've saved her. Because she couldn't afford a relationship with her boss.... now it's obvious that it's not like that anymore.
Please. Guys, girls. I'm desperate. I really feel she's the woman of my life.... and don't want to lose her. But I can't go on like that. I really feel like commiting a suicide. Can't live imagining him ****** her. Or even touching her, kissing her, etc....
Thanks for all advices.....
Yours,
Real_Username
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