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TheFlyingMan · 12-21-2006, 04:51 PM

I'm having a bit of trouble...I've recently broken up with my girlfriend, a few weeks ago, and I was in a very bad mood. I've come from a long string of girls who were just not right for me.

Here's my current trouble: my family is talking non stop about my girl troubles. Their dominant thought is on me being alone, they're talking like I'm some kind of loser for always attracting these kind of girls (liars, players, gold diggers and so on), and are always telling me to hook up with so and so.

My dominant thoughts are shifting to one of abundance - inside myself I am training myself to be in a world where I have the right kind of girl. But they are conflicting with me. And I mean bad. Like they're obssessed over it. I'm on holiday now overseas with them, and that's all they talk about when I'm not here.

Does that interfere with my reality? The dominant thoughts of four people are on me being alone / being with some psycho woman, vs. my dominant thoughts of being with a good girl.

Not only that it's also pissing me off.

12-21-2006, 04:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
TheFlyingMan Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 168	your intentions vs. others' dominant thoughts I'm having a bit of trouble...I've recently broken up with my girlfriend, a few weeks ago, and I was in a very bad mood. I've come from a long string of girls who were just not right for me. Here's my current trouble: my family is talking non stop about my girl troubles. Their dominant thought is on me being alone, they're talking like I'm some kind of loser for always attracting these kind of girls (liars, players, gold diggers and so on), and are always telling me to hook up with so and so. My dominant thoughts are shifting to one of abundance - inside myself I am training myself to be in a world where I have the right kind of girl. But they are conflicting with me. And I mean bad. Like they're obssessed over it. I'm on holiday now overseas with them, and that's all they talk about when I'm not here. Does that interfere with my reality? The dominant thoughts of four people are on me being alone / being with some psycho woman, vs. my dominant thoughts of being with a good girl. Not only that it's also pissing me off.