I don't know Matt. I guess we're all different; but you may very well have something there. I guess it depends on the individual, how they respond to that kind of thing. For me, I can see myself responding either very well (i.e. f**k you, I'll show you), or very badly (i.e. you're right, I am crap).
I also didn't want to sound like I was knocking you, you (and plenty of others here) have given great advice to other guys.
I'll butt out now; apart from to say to the OP, I thought the note was a dumb idea too; kinda thing I would have considered in the past.
I figure men are more prone to rationalise and use logic, as reasons to do or not do stuff; but that note, could just freak a girl out, by making her think too much (putting her in her head).
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