Well, it really depends if your talking about true friends or just friends in generel
Getting friends is extremely easy, getting true friends is probably one of the hardest things in the world. I truely believe you dont get more than 1-3 true friends in your entire lifetime. but thats just me (:
Step one to getting more friends is; Meet more people! Naturally the more people you meet, the more interesting people with interests that mathces your own you will find.
Other than that, then whats allready been said about being genuine and somehwat modest (even though if thats not part of your personality, its not that important) and most important of all you just need to feel comfortable around other people so that you allow yourself BEING you! Makes sence?
Something that would probably help too would be so sit yourself down and write down the qualities your looking for in a friend, this is something that works supprisingly well concerning attracting women and probably works with guys too.
Reason for this is that if you know what your looking for, on a subconcious basis you'll be qualifying the people around you to match thoose qualities and when someone qualifies to you they actually invests in you, the more they invest the better. Though ofcourse it should be a two way deal..
Anyway, good luck with meeting new friends champ (:
\\Breaker
EDIT: Naturally honesty is a huge thing aswell, to me integrity is one of the biggest qualities i look for in people around me
Last edited by Breaker; 10-07-2008 at 02:23 PM.
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