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Syriven · 10-07-2008, 08:06 AM

Thanks to all of you for your advice. I've decided to wait a little bit longer to send that note, if I ever do. Me and a group of friends (not the friends she knows) hung out tonight, and I invited Jill along. She said she couldn't, but unprompted she told me her days off and said if anything was going on on those days, she'd be up for it. So I'm going to try to set something up for Friday, and just see how that goes.

Thanks again guys. This really helped me think through this, and convinced me that sending that note is a risk that seems unnecessary. Maybe later, when I'm more sure of her attraction to me, it will be okay for that note. But not now, for sure.

10-07-2008, 08:06 AM	#16 (permalink)
Syriven Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 10	Thanks to all of you for your advice. I've decided to wait a little bit longer to send that note, if I ever do. Me and a group of friends (not the friends she knows) hung out tonight, and I invited Jill along. She said she couldn't, but unprompted she told me her days off and said if anything was going on on those days, she'd be up for it. So I'm going to try to set something up for Friday, and just see how that goes. Thanks again guys. This really helped me think through this, and convinced me that sending that note is a risk that seems unnecessary. Maybe later, when I'm more sure of her attraction to me, it will be okay for that note. But not now, for sure.