Thanks, those are great tips DatingSpecialist, im not used to show love, but i allready started doing something like that, showing him my support, beign kind with him, those are great advices, thanks a lot.
I wanted to share something he told me the other day:
"Did you see on the movies, when someone is paralized and someone else comes and shakes him and slaps him to get him out of that trance?, i think that sometimes thats just what we need to realize how wrong we are."
This came after a very tough discussion i had with him. This maybe related to catharsis, or something similar. We sometimes dont realize something until something we dont like happens to us, something that really makes us think about the way we are, and then we start to consiously want to change...
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