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Originally Posted by forynav  hey man, I feel you. I don't have a cool social circle. All my friend suck with women. I need an upgrade to my social life and quick! |
Maybe it's good, that you first appreciate where you are, and why; what inner attitudes and state of being, you have that create your reality; and what can you do to change that?
I think you'll find though, a lot of guys share your prediciment, you are not alone.
Maybe ToneToneTone, has it right; maybe a cosistent diet of positivity is the way.
My only beef really, with the positive thinking malarkey, is that it all so often seems forced, unnatural, and short lived. The men I see who are the best with women, and who have the most fun with them, and seem the most liked and respected by them; all have a natural easy-going softness or natural way to them; that doens't in my mind, seem much like 'positive thinking' (that they're trying so hard to think positive thoughts etc).
That's not to say it's without merit though.
I wish you success.
Jamie.
