I agree with you there matt. I work in the IT field and I would say 90% of the guys are too logical and get extremely nervous and clam up in social situations. For them it's a problem they can't solve and cant' figure out because it's too random. In fact, social situations fall into regular patterns quite a lot and being smart can be a real help if the person gets rid of the need to have everything figured out. Social situations something to have fun with and enjoy, in fact, I would say that is the whole purpose of social situations.
If you are dating just to succeed in getting a partner, you are doing it wrong. It's also about having fun, enjoying yourself and just playing around with it all.
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