Thanks for your advice Matt. I think you've hit the nail on the head when you say about the communication skills. He clams up whenever I try to discuss any issues of the heart. He says that I am getting too heavy and says that actions speak louder than words. He told me his family never talk about emotions and therefore he finds it a really uncomfortable subject. As I've got to know him more he reveals more and more and I feel the love from him. I would feel more sure of things ifhe were to communicate more with me but know that if I push the issue it is likely to scare him away. He didn't even like cuddling when I first met him! Now he can't get enough
I was brought up in an emotionally cold family and it has taken time to build myself to be the loving, warm and open person that I am today. I'm so glad I did it! I also appreciate how uncomfortable it can be when you're not used to expressing matters of the heart.
Thank you for drawing this to my attention Matt! Much appreciated x