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Originally Posted by jetpack  Ok, maybe I'm in the wrong mindset. But frankly, most of you come off as pretty hostile, and I'm certainly regretting coming here. I was hoping for some intelligent conversation on the topic, based off the forum title.
I think many of you have overly fixated on the mention of money in my post. I'm not a millionaire or anything and I don't feel like one either. It's more that just relative to the poor people in my area, I feel blessed with a successful career. And while I have in the past attributed a successful career with ease of getting women, I do realize that's not the case.
Yes, I am very logical and I'm not giving that up for no chick. However, I don't think "boring" is the problem. I've barely begun to tell you about my life, so, I don't even feel I need to defend that. |
yeah being too logical can certainly hurt your chances with women. I certainly train loads of logical guys, scientists, computer programmers, engineers, doctors, they seem to have similar ways of thinking, and this is helpful in some areas of their life, but makes dating hard.
First of all they talks about facts too much, they are not good at talking about feelings, or inner processes, or being open. Their conversation tends to simply be boring.
Also, they can tend to not enjoy the subtleties of dating, and sexual tension. The guys are great with women tend to actually enjoy the uncertainty, all the different steps, the tension, the intrigue, the figuring things out by chance, the not know what is going to happen, and the mystery of meeting a new person. Many people actually totally hate this!
The other thing is that they can be too serious. Dates are like job interviews, their questions are just way too intense, and they seem to carry over their logical seriousness from their job. If you could record me on a date, and realize how fun, carefree, and downright silly I am, it would shock.
I'm glad my advice really hit you, hopefully you can switch from complaining about not having what you want, to going out into the world and TAKING what you want.