I think when you really like someone having 'some' insecurity and doubt and stuff is fairly normal.
At this stage you have only talked about your feelings and not giving any reasons why your difference in experience could be a problem. Sometimes when people have different experience levels the less experienced one can be prone to emotional immaturity, jealousy, or there are some strong underlying reasons why they are less experienced. But you haven't mentioned any of these, so is your insecurity about the difference in experience imaginary?
Why do you think its against all odds?
Based on the information you have provided I think you might be reading into things too much, and jumping to conclusions too early, but there may be more to the story than you are telling.
Difference in experience is not much a major thing, I mean the difference in experience between me and my girlfriend is not even on the same planet.
As for moving, well, moving is kind of like a test more than anything. I want to move to NYC, and my girlfriend has 4 years left of University to become a vet, so there is obviously as a clash there, but we've talked about, and come up with a compromise situation to deal with it.
Just remember that good communication skills are just as important as someone being good looking, or smart, or interesting.
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