Thread: I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong..
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Old 10-04-2008, 07:27 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I'd rather get some constructive advice than a virtual smackdown.
You come here and suggest that having a lot of money should make it easier for you to get a girl.

You get here practically to different kind of smackdowns of your mindset that doesn't work.
One is the loving Angela style smackdown:
You are responsible, take 100% responsibility and don't make excuses.

Then you have mattpd's more harsh smackdown based on a few PUA ideas.

Your problem of not understanding why you are getting the results you are getting lies in using a ineffective mindset.
There a few different mindsets that are constructive but to help you someone has to first smackdown your present mindset, since that mindset creates your problem.

If you have read Steves book, try another mindset:
You do you rate yourself in applying truth to your relationships with woman?
You do you rate yourself in applying love to your relationships with woman?
You do you rate yourself in applying power to your relationships with woman?
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