[mattpd]

Reading stuff like this and going out on a Saturday night I really appreciate how totally awesome evolution is.

Now I'm on the right side of the evolution coin, I love it, when I was on the wrong side of it I hated it.

Evolution explains why less than 5% of males have the opportunity to replicate as often as they like, while 95% of males get maybe 5-10 real serious genuine chances their entire life with different women, more than likely they marry one or more of those, and have children, but ultimately often settle unhappy, or not near their full potential.

I just find it so easy to take women off guys like the original poster. Completely clueless about attraction, their techniques are just awful.

You get these guys that are totally confused by dating. They think they are a good catch, they think they are not too bad, but continually come up empty handed with dating, and when going out trying to meet women, simply because they have no idea at all about the 'real' game.

Evolution just weeds these guys genes out of existence.

I saw one of these guys tonight. He's worth 40 million dollars, and cannot pickup to save his life. Instantly I saw he was totally seeking approval by his behaviour, and this makes him totally unattractive to 99% of women, and he'd be the type of complain that he totally does not understand dating, or women.

Some common themes of guys who fail on the evolution scale:

- suffer anxiety in social situations
- too much in their head
- think too much
- think too much about themselves
- too internally focused rather than learning from their outside surroundings
- not dominant enough
- simply weak at touching women, and being bossy enough
- think about dating logically and analytically
- think about attraction from a superficial level not an "emotional" level
- less than 1% improvement in skills per month
- feels an entitlement with women, not a go out and get it attitude with women
- always operates at 80%, not 100%

I don't mean to be 'mean' to the original poster.

But it kind of reminds me of this time I met a bartender.

I went to a bar to see my friend who was the manager. He wasn't working, so I hung out there, and got on well with the bar tender. She was cool.

After she finished I went back to her house, and there were a big group of people there, her friends, and her flatmates, and their friends.

I noticed a guy who really liked the girl I met. He obviously was in the friends zone, you know, trying to be a nice guy, doing lots of stuff for her, while she must have dated "jerks" lol.

Anyway, as the night progressed people left the party. People kept leaving until it was just me, the bartender, and this guy in the friends zone. He must have realized the attraction between me and the girl, so he finally started trying to make a move, which she rejected.

He said "can I sleep on the couch like I always do?" and she said "no" lol, so he said "but that means I have to sleep in my car", and she said "okay", he was totally expecting her to say to sleep on the couch.

It was winter and it was freezing, and he got to sleep in his car, and I got to sleep in her bed. It must have been hell for him. It was at that moment I understood evolution, and dating.

You either go in hard and you take ****, or you get rejected, or you are soft, wimpy and get what you are given. You are either dominant and get what you want, or you play the nice card, or act 'confused' or think possessions will get you women.

You either sleep in the car after putting in 6 months of work, or you **** a girl in her bed after 2 hours.

You either complain about the system, or you make the system work for you.

I kind of love non-dominant males.

They kind of like pre-heat the oven before the real action takes place.