Let me go "blunt" and disect what you are saying:
To not bluntly say what's on your mind does not equal to being fake.
This is a difficult one, if you are truthfull you say wat is on your mind, regardless of wat other people think. On the oher side it can block you from making a connection (if the other person feels insulted or if you are out of touch). I guess in general it is better to be more direct, but there are cases where you can hurt people, then you should check yourself and ask yourself where this is coming from. It demands more courage and openess to say wat is on your mind and you risk being put in the same categorie as the yerks.
But men who only have sexual intentions will notice a woman's physique first. That's the point of view I'm talking about. And the other men ALSO notice a woman's physique first.
They can then chose to only look at it or dig a little deeper.
So, I'm not against physical attraction, but since we're talking about having fun, praising something other than appearance is more fun to me.
Raising standards for sex, or building sexual tension by not having sex so soon, are also part of the game.
Obviously you know yourself better than anybody else and any man that would seduce you, should know how to have fun and build sexual tension.
Personnaly if i see a really attractive woman i will often compliment on her looks, i might not say it verbally, but i will look her from top to bottom and might utter something like "waw". This helps me to appreciate wat is obvious and then i will move on from there. In a way it helps me to look deeper because i've got it out of my system.
So i hope we never meet each other because this could lead to a flaming discussion where you would acuse me of being a pig and i you of a frigid rabbit
