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Here is what I hear about you:
I have money. But I can't get a good woman, why?
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That's certainly what I'm trying to say at all. And, I've think I've said the opposite, that I try not to use money to buy affections and try not to flaunt it. I've worked on all the qualities that I think are important in a man. And, well, I've had these problems before I made any money, so I really don't blame it.
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You have everything BUT the attitude thats required to succeed with females.
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Yes, well, if it's only about that, then I certainly don't have it. While I personally don't think that's everything, I do need to work on it.
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What do you think you do that interferes with your ability to meet and connect with people? What happens?
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In the right settings, I think I can connect with people pretty well. Like talking with friend's friends at a party. Shifting gears and going into flirty or pursuit mode would be were I start to disconnect. I always seem to miss any deeper connection when talking with people.
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instead focus on meeting new people. Men, women, whatever -- just practice making friends and enjoying people's company.
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Well, I do try to meet more friends. However, becoming friends with girls I could be interested in seems a lot different. In the past, one of my best friends, a girl, I was interested in romantically. However, she only seems to date complete jerks, and I was always stuck as 'just a friend'. Either I was
never in a position to make that leap, or it's too big a leap for me.
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you're probably suggesting it by quietly begging for affirmations and hints that she likes you. This is one of the quickest ways to drive off a woman
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I'm sure that's one of my problems.